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My Bold Bonus Life: 12

August 22, 2010
This splendid orb was created for the 100th dropping of a Times Square New Year’s Eve ball. The New York Times started the practice in 1907. This piece was made by Waterford Crystal and a lighting company in 2007 to commemorate the century of these celebrations. This ball now sits in the Times Square Visitors […] Read More

My Bold Bonus Life: 12

August 21, 2010
Food report from my bonus 18-day life in Manhattan: above you’ll see a lamb kofta burger from a fine establishment called 5 Napkin Burger. It was impressively good. And as juicy as advertised. In fact, 5 napkins were not enough; I needed a bib, really wrecked my shirt. Speaking of wreckage, here’s the update on […] Read More

My Bold Bonus Life: 11

August 19, 2010
Well, I screwed up. I’m here in New York apartment-sitting, with the simple duties of watering the plants and bringing in the mail. You’d think I could handle that. But I let one of the plants on the terrace go too long without water. Its prognosis is now iffy. I’ve sent my confession and apology […] Read More

My Bold Bonus Life: 10

August 19, 2010
The first day of the second half of my bonus life in New York felt like four different days crammed together. Yesterday was: Gallery-hopping. Doll clothes. Meeting with book editor. Evening haircut that felt like a Japanese tea ceremony. And then today turned out to be a half-day. Time has been funny that way in […] Read More

My Bold Bonus Life: 9

August 17, 2010
Number 9? This means that I’m at the halfway point in my 18-day extra-life-within-a-life. As a New Yorker, I’m middle-aged. But I’m not taking this as a sign that I should re-assess, have a crisis, or do anything differently in my New York adventure. I’m going to keep on poking into things on whim. I […] Read More

My Bold Bonus Life: 8

August 16, 2010
[youtube c7_NPSeAb8Y nolink] Sunday was Rap Day for me. First, brunch at The Grey Dog in the West Village. Highly recommended spot, but I was there to say hi to the daughter of a friend back home who waits tables at the cafe when she's not going to auditions. She just got a one-month role […] Read More

My Bold Bonus Life: 7

August 15, 2010
A few highly personal images from my Bonus Life in New York:From the Japanese Hill-and-Pond Garden in the Brooklyn Botanic Gardens. At home, I live beside a little pond with a Japanese zigzag bridge. Husband Bob has very Eastern tastes and philosophy. A piece of the Tudor City neighborhood, on the east side of mid-town, […] Read More

My Bold Bonus Life: 6

August 14, 2010
5:40 a.m. I was up getting ready to go get my ticket to see live Saturday Night Live. I arrived under the famous NBC marquee at Rockefeller Plaza by 6:30, only to learn that the making of the shows is “in hiatus.” But that’s not what the website had told me. Furthermore, the security guard […] Read More

My Bold Bonus Life 5

August 13, 2010
Posting in the morning today, for a change, while I'm feeling fresh and clear-minded. Never mind that it's 12:13 pm. That's mid-morning for me in this New York 18-Day Bonus Life. I've settled into a schedule of going to bed about 1:30 or so and getting up about 9. Not really much different from my […] Read More

My Bold Bonus Life: 4

August 13, 2010
Lotta lotta walking — twice across the island of Manhattan, and from 87th down to 42nd and halfway back. And almost every instant of it interesting. And a little shopping: got a couple of light cotton tops at Forever 21 for dealing with the heat. (I know I’m actually 28 on this trip, but I’m […] Read More


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