Okay, it’s only two weeks into the year, but anything after the first week can be a wobbly moment. My resolution I summed up at the time as To Defuse the Resistance. And my plan of action was to meditate twice a day, ten minutes each. (explanation on earlier post.)In short, meditation is to help […] Read More

I have a box of quotes on my desk: the draw-one-a-day kind of collection. Today’s card: “Courage opens the heart.” I googled the sentence and found the source: Rob Kall, who has apparently given such matters a lot of thought. Another of his I found particularly interesting is in the form of a question: “How […] Read More

It would be a bold undertaking indeed, to be one’s ideal self for even an hour, much less regularly. The idea keeps coming up in my mind. When I want a behavior change, rewards usually work pretty well. But most rewards that interest me are not ideal, often involving too much sugar or cash. Ideally, […] Read More

Just caught up on e-mail completely. Even the ones that were harder to answer, or took time. (There’s one pending that requires a piece of info I don’t have yet, but that doesn’t count.) I consider this quite bold. Sometimes I’ll open and close one a few times before answering it: not bold. It feels […] Read More

We showed up at 9 a.m. at the courthouse, half a courtroom full of varied individuals. The man sitting beside me, Sean, was an art director maybe in his late 30s. In front of me were two black women who seemed to know each other. A lot of men in shirtsleeves, not a single tie. […] Read More

I’m in organizational tying up loose-ends mode today. In a way that I wasn’t when the year actually ended. Just finished the major part of a very large project, and have a moment to clear off both my desktops (virtual and physical) and create a little order. It’s very satisfying. And I always resolve to […] Read More

I’m hooked on sweet fast-food iced tea. One large one a day. It used to be two, and I successfully cut back to one. The reason for this moderation is that caffeine is for me a bit of a depressant and an anxiety builder. My remaining one large cup can still muddy my skies a […] Read More

My husband Bob would like everyone to know that he was very sensitive and thoughtful in his celebration of my recent birthday. This is to counter the few lines of iffy publicity he received here after his BOLD choice of a 25th anniversary present was not well received. (This happens sometimes with bold choices.) Anyway, […] Read More

Do go visit the lovely and wildly flattering piece written about me and Sister India on Mojo’s blog. Here’s why (other than because it’s so nice about me): There’s a five minute clip from a Bollywood movie that shows Varanasi, the holy city where my novel Sister India is set. It’s a beautiful trip along […] Read More

At last: the actual day. As of 2:34 p.m. today, I have lived for sixty action-packed years. And more to go. When my husband Bob turned sixty, my mother said: “You tell him I’ve had 20 good years since that age SO FAR.” Now she’s up to 26. I’m thinking the same way. My big […] Read More