One of the ultimate bold acts, in my view, is to take an unblinking look at one’s finances. I’ve just read a book that has relieved me of that dread — and of the guilt and blame that come from discovering the precise results of one’s less good decisions. For getting rid of the fear, […] Read More

It’s almost a week now since I returned from my 18-day bonus extra life as a New Yorker. I’ve noticed a couple of significant after-effects of having tucked in this Plan B Life. 1. I feel very optimistic, as if almost any good thing is possible (and I’m capable of making it happen.) 2. I’ve […] Read More

[youtube tyWuPGSuaik nolink] I'd heard the name Kickstarter, but somehow the startling opportunity there didn't register until recently when my artist stepson Jay Dick brought a particular project to my attention. Kickstarter is a site/service that allows "artists, designers, filmmakers, musicians, journalists, inventors, explorers…" to raise money for their projects. People can pledge any amount […] Read More

Worked at home today. How is this bold? Well, it’s way too handy to take a nap, which I did do (I sometimes “close my eyes a minute” in my serious grownup office as well, but somehow that feels less risky.) Daytime naps are notorious for producing weird dreams and this one threw me into […] Read More

First day back in the office after my 18 day Extra Life in NY. I arrived with the bold resolve to: “not be a workaholic drudge with eyestrain.” The day has been no shorter than usual. But I’ve certainly been more relaxed. Not once all day have I thought while doing one piece of work […] Read More

You’ll have to admit, it takes some cheek to say this: My focus is shifting from accomplishing things to having fun. I noticed this during my recent 18-day extra life in New York. I did accomplish a few things, both for clients and myself. But I didn’t drive myself crazy over it. And it’s entirely […] Read More

Friday was the final day of my 18-day extra life as a New Yorker. As Audrey Hepburn at 28. This two-weeks-and-four-days experience was a tremendous success for me. I loved it. I do feel satisfied now that I’ve had a Manhattan life. Just as I feel satisfied that I had a life in India, in […] Read More

On my penultimate day as a 28 year-old New Yorker (my mini-life on the Upper West Side ends tomorrow), I took a bus to the Bronx. It was the borough I hadn’t yet hit. And I wanted to see it slowly and aboveground instead of popping up out of a subway. The part I saw […] Read More

I revisited some of my New York past yesterday. That’s probably an important piece of an extra bonus life like my 18 days as a Manhattanite. First, I had a very pleasant coffee and re-connect with the literary agent who sold my first novel, Revelation and The Healing Power of Doing Good, and with one […] Read More

Audrey Hepburn came home. For new arrivals here, this is the way I think of the New Yorker whose apartment I’m “sitting” in for my extra mini-life as a Manhattanite. Her glamorous job called her back a few days earlier than she’d planned; she’s now staying with a friend so that I can finish out […] Read More