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New Year’s Resolutions That Work

January 4, 2011
Have you made a resolution?   I'm working on this, not quite finished.  For me, a good resolution needs  two parts: the big goal and the action item. A few years ago,  Part One was: follow the will of God. Part Two was: find out what that is by meditating 20 minutes a day without fail. That year […] Read More

A Peaceful Start to the Holiday

December 23, 2010
When I was a senior at Duke, I took a wonderful writing course from Helen Bevington. On the first day of class, she told us on she was open to reading anything but Christmas poems. Being of a somewhat oppositional nature, I took it as a challenge to write a Christmas poem that would interest […] Read More

“We Have Come to Be Danced”

December 20, 2010
/Solstice celebration was today at lunch for four “weird women” in Raleigh’s Pullen Park. We stood in a big round gazebo around a little potted tree and held what amounted to a nature-lover’s mini-peer-group therapy session.   I left feeling shook loose and inspired. One of the highlights was the reading of a bold poem, […] Read More

The Wrong Side of Bed

December 17, 2010
On a screwy day (of the sort when I keep making dumb little mistakes), I’ve never been sure of the best strategy: plunge ahead or freeze. Yesterday was a bit like that (though not the worst.) I went to a two hour Christmas get-together, the sort of thing where you get there on time. I […] Read More

Making Small Changes — in the Tradition-Bound Holidays

December 15, 2010
The change: last night I made a vat of fudge. Ordinarily I don't cook. And this is not an overstatement. If I ever made fudge before, it was more than forty years ago and utilized a mix and an onsite advisor. But the hint of a whim to do this touched me a few days […] Read More

Back Up On the Horse

December 14, 2010
Every time I take a slight break from blogging, I find that the first time back takes more energy. And I’m slightly hesitant. There’s no good reason for this other than the power of inertia. A moving object once stopped needs a wee boost to get going again. Providing one’s-self this boost is a mini-version […] Read More

Bargain Critiques: This Month Only

December 6, 2010
  On short pieces:   One-time flat fee of $95 for a critique of up to 40  pages for manuscripts received by January 1.   Fiction or nonfiction; excerpt, book proposal, short fiction, or article.    You'll receive a report on structure, use of language, pacing, any needs for tightening, missing pieces, suspense and "engaging-ness." I write a summary of […] Read More

Charming Writerly Raleigh Office for Rent

December 2, 2010
The office upstairs from mine opened up yesterday. (Sad to say, Greenpeace is moving.)   But the change opens a space in this charming, historic 1910 “office house” at the downtown edge of Raleigh’s Oakwood, a few blocks from the Capitol.   The building, called Free Range Studio, currently contains four writers, one small art […] Read More

I Would Hate To Lose You

December 1, 2010
When I moved my site last week to this new location, I was sad to lose my 52 formally committed “Followers.” I think Frequent Visitors would be a better term. Or Cybermates. Or Bold Blog Readers. (Perhaps you have some ideas?) Whatever it’s called, I hope you’ll sign up again — by clicking on either […] Read More

Bold Ben Bradlee

November 30, 2010
I'm envious of this guy Ben Bradlee, former editor of The Washington Post. Not because of his journalism career, stellar as that is. (He was in charge of Woodward and Bernstein and the Watergate story.) But because he decidedly doesn't have the slightest smidgeon of obsessive-compulsive disorder, of any kind of anxiety disorder. I know […] Read More


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