My office partner, friend, and landlady  Carrie Knowles has a new novella out this month from Mind Wings Audio.  Shoot Me is an hour-long psychological thriller, just right for short trips or long commutes, or for playing while you're doing office/home chores. She and I and other writers in this office building are accustomed to print book releases.  […] Read More

In "Obsessions Revisited," in the May/June Scientific American Mind,  Melinda Wenner Moyer reports that: *research suggests obsessive-compulsive disorder may not stem from anxiety as has long been thought, but that anxiety may be the result of coping with the burden of the symptoms.  This is a radical change of thinking, as you'll discover if you Google for […] Read More

  Tornadoes and other burrowing animals struck my home turf this weekend, in a strong reminder of the power of what insurance companies call  "acts of God."    I think we (humans) are very gutsy and resourceful to cope as well as we do with forces that are pretty much out of our control. Saturday, I was at home, […] Read More

Flying to New York (from Raleigh, NC) for a book pub party is my idea of a good time.  I did it once before, accompanying writer buddy Dan Wakefield to the celebration at Carnegie Hall of Frank Conroy's novel Body and Soul.  (And then Madison Avenue Presbyterian Church held a reading/reception when my first novel Revelation […] Read More

In my mid-twenties as a news reporter at the NC Legislature, I enjoyed watching   one of my local legislators, a woman about 20 years older than me, with progressive views, a good sense of humor, and deep husky voice. I was in the press section on the day that she, Ruth Cook, stood to speak on […] Read More

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I hate dealing with conflict!   I hate dealing with conflict! Can't be avoided.  Must do it anyway. So what's the worst that can happen when I proceed?  *lose connection with the person *lose the good stuff that that person brings *disappoint someone *not be liked *ruffle feathers *be wrong and not realize it (the persistently needling worry) […] Read More

The thought of running a group (in my case, a writing group) has always filled me with dread. This in spite of the fact that I love public speaking and working with writers one-to-one.  I've always run groups, mostly when invited and mostly for a day or a week.   I'm fine while the people are there and the […] Read More

           "When you know that you are eternal you can play your true role in time. When you know you are divine you can become completely human. When you know you are one with God you are free to become absolutely yourself."    The quote of the week from Judith Valerie Yoga in Raleigh, NC […] Read More

A phrase jumped out at me from a review in an old New Yorker.   I was reading James Wood's piece on The Collected Stories of Lydia Davis.  She is an unusual writer, as you may know.   At least one of her stories is two sentences long.    Understatement and deadpan wit are her metier.  And she can be […] Read More