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“…To Take Control of Your Life”

It’s a rare book that changes my life in an instant. In fact I think there may be only one (not counting the ones I’ve written.)

Book 5 in my series of Rediscovered Treasures is Boundaries: When to Say YES, When to Say NO, To Take Control of Your Life.

What this book Boundaries does is view proper protection of your time, space, and self as a crucial moral practice. The authors, Henry Cloud(gotta love a website called and John Townsend, lay out their argument based on biblical quotes. So the thinking is Christian. But you don’t have to be Christian to see that they’re right: being a pushover is squandering life. If I let myself be run over and diverted from what I know I’m supposed to be doing, I’m up to no good.

Conquering Fears of Saying No

When I read this, quite a few years ago, I was entirely convinced. Before that I’d had a niggling underground conflict that a really good person would be able to do her stuff and everyone else’s too. That conflict was dead well before I got to the last page. I’ve never even had to review the book again. It worked. Like a magic bullet.

Powerful book. Have a look at it, especially if you’re in the habit of letting yourself be blown off course.

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