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March 15, 2024
Dear Nicholas, I learned this morning that my friend Dan has died. I’ve felt close to him since about 1985, but we have never lived in the same state. The distance has never seemed to matter. When a distant friend dies, it’s still the loss of a friend. The Difference But the fact is hard […]
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March 12, 2024
Dear Nicholas, Sunday night, still in my grubby gardening clothes from the afternoon, I was parked alone in front of the TV watching the glamour and who-are-you-wearing of the Oscars, when suddenly I experienced an eruption of joy. An explosion of delight! Such surprising joy! I’m one who likes the Oscars (I know there are […]
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February 4, 2024
Dear Nicholas, Beloved husband Bob Dick just had a birthday and is now eighty-two and a day. Being seven years younger than he is keeps me thinking I’m pretty young. But the numbers are getting increasingly impressive for both of us. Some years ago, when I was maybe forty or fifty, we were invited to […]
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January 31, 2024
Dear Nicholas, I’ve been pondering this and I have to say that I don’t know what should be done about immigration, about peace in the Middle East (other than a ceasefire and release of all hostages), about the increased cost of living, about several court cases and much much more. I do have emphatic opinions […]
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January 8, 2024
Dear Nicholas, I know 75 may not seem old to someone who is, say, 91. Nonetheless, youth that I am, I do think this birthday today should be of resounding importance in my life. It’s three-quarters of a century, after all. But it doesn’t feel like a big deal. Is Turning 75 Any Different? I […]
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January 3, 2024
Dear Nicholas, I’m wondering if having a ferocious cough this week is why I’m having trouble getting myself to do any of the things that need doing. Does coughing kill motivation and energy and focus? Or is my lethargy a case of post-holiday mental exhaustion? The last time I had a cough this aggravating it […]
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November 6, 2023
Dear Nicholas, For many of us vain folks who check our reflections in store windows, technology has a new way to “find one’s self.” And the self it finds can be a very flattering image indeed. AI delivers flattery. An encouraging word The vain self-absorbed writer (or anyone who has been widely written about) […]
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October 24, 2023
Dear Therapist Nicholas, I first wrote this six years ago when I was merely 68. It began: I seem to have reached The Age of Others Keeling Over. People keep getting old, falling ill, some actually dying. This sort of thing has happened before, but back then it was an aberration, cases of dying too […]
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October 16, 2023
Dear Nicholas, Seems to be a pivotal time here. Probably so for a lot of people. Here’s what’s going on with me: *Husband Bob retiring after more than 50 years as a psychologist in private practice. Yesterday was his last day with Chapel Hill patients. He has so loved doing this work. Quite a dramatic […]
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July 24, 2023
Dear Nicholas, About 25 years ago, feeling discouraged about my work, I gave a Barbie doll (knock-off) a make-over with my face and hair. I surrounded her with tiny Play-doh versions of books I meant to publish as well as the one I already had. Inspirational Barbie! Visionary Barbie! She had come equipped with a […]
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Comments
Love it. Can you make a Bestseller Brent out of an old Ken doll. Hair would have to be gone though!
Great idea, Brent! Although I don’t think Ken wears a lot of writerly tweed. I just had the thought of making a Retirement Ken for my husband who retires at the end of the year and is thinking about how to use his time.
This is wonderful! You should write this up for a magazine! So timely!
Thanks, Billie! What would your Aspirational Barbie look like?
Sounds like a good plan. We do manifest what we put our attention on, or so I’ve read.
I think it works some of the time, Judy. Have you tested it?
Great “Tiny Story.” Like it very much. Why not a picture of you on the UNC-Center stage, with a tiny camera pointed your way. That would be relevant to any subject, like aspirational Barbie, all-grown-up-Barbie, bestseller Barbie, etc. I had so much fun back then, working the old camera. I really felt like I’d made it.
Well, you had made it! That was fun and, for me, pretty tense. I was comfortable on the air, but tough deadline. And I like your idea of TV Barbie. Talk Show Barbie could be good too.