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Let Your Mind Rock and Roll

April 20, 2009
Today I’m fulminating primarily on the Mystic-Lit blog. The title is “The Greasy Elements Approach to Writing.” Doesn’t that title entice you? The basic idea is to improve creativity by visually dislodging and breaking up the frozen clusters of words and images so that they interact in new ways. Doing Word Jumbles is my laboratory […] Read More

An Experiment to Try

April 20, 2009
One day my husband was at our house when the woman who cleans for us every other Thursday arrived. She does a superb job, and so often adds special personal touches. Bob inquired about her way of going about her work that led to such results. She said her approach is to “do it with […] Read More

Win a Sister India and Turn Up the Music

April 17, 2009
…by supporting the Brussels Chamber Orchestra’s visit to North Carolina this summer. This is one bold project that is being launched from the office next to mine. First an intro: The BCO is a group of 12 remarkable twenty-something musicians from 6 countries, based in Brussels, Belgium. Playing without a conductor, they are a marvel […] Read More

Courage Within a Group

April 16, 2009
How to encourage courage is a field of research that surely has potential for enormous impact on the world, and on individual lives. I just ran across some interesting findings on the Leading With Lift blog on “Where is the Courage in Organizations.” As a nearly-lifelong freelancer who comes from a family of DIY-ers, I’ve […] Read More

Red Hair, Blue Jello: Are You Hungry or Tired?

April 15, 2009
Monday afternoon and night, I was very tired. So I ate a lot. Not exactly logical or a solution to the problem, but overeating felt like the right thing to do. I’ve long known that a gutsy move would be to learn how to figure out which bell is ringing and answer that one: i.e., […] Read More

Britain’s Got Talent and So Do You

April 14, 2009
Want to see a thrilling eruption of talent, to watch someone boldly and delightedly living and enjoying her big dream? Go hear Susan Boyle sing. It’s a moment of glory on Britain’s Got Talent. It even warmed the heart of Simon Cowell. Very moving and inspiring. It’ll make you want to cheerfully belt out your […] Read More

Family Holiday Dinner

April 13, 2009
Easter was at my house yesterday. Relatives drove three hours each way to eat lunch with us. Since I’m famously not a cook, expectations were low on their side and anticipatory tension notable on mine. I served heated up take-out from a Whole Foods grocery, and Husband Bob, who is more of a cook than […] Read More

Turkey Town

April 12, 2009
The pig spa that I wrote about here a couple of weeks ago has been rivaled in real life. A travel story in my local paper had turned out to be an April Fool’s trick on us readers. I believed it—and then posted here about the bold deception. The story described an inn where the […] Read More

Dealing with Bad Publicity

April 9, 2009
A fellow I know just got a blast of highly personal, heavily negative national publicity. It’s the kind of scrutiny of a person that borders on inhuman, every aspect of his life touched on. It must take big-time courage to show up at work, at lunch, at the gym, or wherever, after that kind of […] Read More

Singing a Song from the Unconscious

April 8, 2009
Skiing on a glacier in Austria some years ago on slopes (catwalks) far beyond my ability, I realized that I had been humming the same tune over and over all day. When I finally noticed I was doing it, I immediately recognized it: “Who’s Afraid of the Big, Bad Wolf?” It was true that I’d […] Read More


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