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Boldness Is Also in the Details

June 6, 2009
A great deal of what we do every day can have more meaning and pleasure if we do it in an imaginative, thoughtful, bold way. Even, for example, a catalog of the most ordinary categories of products can be a delight. Check out the site for the Dutch company Hema. Chill out, breathe, and relax […] Read More

Bold One-Woman Business Idea

June 5, 2009
A photographer I know, Artie Dixon, is offering her beautiful second home in the North Carolina mountains for week-long vacations for girlfriends–with tour guide to the sites of the area. So no maps, planning, or GPS is required. The art-filled 1939 house in Little Switzerland is called Sky Blue, and its stone patio opens onto […] Read More

Thanks!

June 4, 2009
My first-ever Big Bold Sale on my critiquing services, announced here three days ago, is getting a terrific and very gratifying response: lots of writers I haven’t worked with before, some interesting and talented and quick-to-take-action folks from all over the country, have been touch. Not every bold experiment works out well, as we all […] Read More

Feel Fantastic

June 3, 2009
The new July issue of Success Magazine (the one with “GO FOR BOLD” in orange type on the cover) has a simple, effective idea in its list of action items on the last page. Essentially it’s this: in planning your day, identify the action that would make you feel fantastic to get done today. Do […] Read More

Red Chair, Blue Language

June 2, 2009
My office partner Carrie who owns the building is having the place spiffed up and repainted. In this process several issues of boldness have arisen. Most noticeably, the front porch chair has gone from pale yellow to poppy red. And then yesterday, a wee incident raised for me some thoughts about differences in style. Carrie […] Read More

My Big Bold Sale

June 1, 2009
In honor of our recession, I’m having my first-ever sale. Here’s the deal: I’m offering a June-only reduced fee for all my manuscript and consulting services for writers. I’ve cut my rates by 40% for the next four weeks. For critiques on manuscripts, fiction and nonfiction, and for consultations on the writing business, I’m charging […] Read More

Getting Up Off the Sofa

May 31, 2009
Went out kayaking today before hitting the computer, and now I feel wonderful. Those disciplined souls who get themselves to run in the mornings are on to something; they do get their reward for popping/dragging out of bed early. This was my first “serious” paddle of the season. I did go out once in boots […] Read More

Get a View from the Trees

May 29, 2009
Bold idea: Live up in the trees. Perhaps because it’s the leafy season, this idea is very appealing to me…and to others, because I keep seeing it show up on-line and off. I live in the woods (in a house) surrounded by trees. And we have a tree platform, which can help to give a […] Read More

“Like Streams in the Desert”

May 29, 2009
Here’s a boldness break of a rather different sort than the laughing Buddha on the train earlier this week. (A boldness break is a brief time-out that re-juices imagination and creative courage.) “Like Streams in the Desert” is an orchestral piece composed in honor of the 50th anniversary of Israel by my friend-from-first-grade Meira Warshauer. […] Read More

The Masks Fear Wears

May 28, 2009
In answer to: “how do we hide our fears?” a question posed in the comments by Debbie, I did a bit of research. I suspect there are many more items that could be added. *Misplaced anger is a method that gives the illusion of control and safety. More on this from psychology professor Jennifer Freyd […] Read More


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