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Get a View from the Trees

May 29, 2009
Bold idea: Live up in the trees. Perhaps because it’s the leafy season, this idea is very appealing to me…and to others, because I keep seeing it show up on-line and off. I live in the woods (in a house) surrounded by trees. And we have a tree platform, which can help to give a […] Read More

“Like Streams in the Desert”

May 29, 2009
Here’s a boldness break of a rather different sort than the laughing Buddha on the train earlier this week. (A boldness break is a brief time-out that re-juices imagination and creative courage.) “Like Streams in the Desert” is an orchestral piece composed in honor of the 50th anniversary of Israel by my friend-from-first-grade Meira Warshauer. […] Read More

The Masks Fear Wears

May 28, 2009
In answer to: “how do we hide our fears?” a question posed in the comments by Debbie, I did a bit of research. I suspect there are many more items that could be added. *Misplaced anger is a method that gives the illusion of control and safety. More on this from psychology professor Jennifer Freyd […] Read More

Boddhisatva in Metro

May 27, 2009
Watch how this guy transforms the dour crowd in a subway car. You’d think, at the start of the film, that these people were on their way to their execution. Not so. The film is 6 minutes and 47 seconds that will embolden your day. Made by Belgian director Christine Rabette in 2003. The actual […] Read More

Post-Memorial Day Post

May 26, 2009
I’m not good military material: don’t care for violence, hierarchies, dressing alike, guns, or having a boss. But hearing the stories of war yesterday on NPR stirred me, as it was supposed to. I thought about soldiers much of the day. One of the things that struck me is how many of them think back […] Read More

Having To Wait

May 23, 2009
The dreadful condition of waiting, not-acting, and not-being-able-to-find-out is a hard one for me and for a lot of folks. I just ran across a list of stupid, energy-wasting things we tend to do to cope with this situation on “Tolerating Uncertainty.” 1 Seeking excessive reassurance from others2 List-making3 Double checking4 Refusing to delegate5 Procrastination/avoidance6 […] Read More

Getting Rid of the Fear of Success

May 22, 2009
“It is often when our futures look brightest that our resolve crumbles and we veer off course.” From the Daily Om, “Boldly Growing Into Your Own Fear of the Future“ So what do we do about this? The Daily Om advises: Replaces negative thoughts with encouraging facts. “Tell yourself that the inevitability of your success […] Read More

Gutsy Honeysuckle

May 21, 2009
Yes, I know that honeysuckle is considered an environmental threat because it overwhelms native plants and a lot of gardeners rip it out. However, I love it. It’s beautiful and it smells good and it brings back lovely memories from my childhood. I’m blogging about it because, though I see the problems, I admire its […] Read More

Elizabeth Edwards Sets a Good Example

May 20, 2009
Here’s to Elizabeth Edwards for speaking up and writing her book! Her whole life has been made public and has been discussed all over the country by others, including John Edwards. I’m astonished at the critics who think that she should not weigh in on the subject herself. She has done so in a manner […] Read More

Cayce on Intuition

May 19, 2009
From Edgar Cayce, “the ‘sleeping prophet,’ the ‘father of holistic medicine,’ and the most documented psychic of the 20th century”: “The more and more each is impelled by that which is intuitive, or the relying upon the soul force within, the greater, the farther, the deeper, the broader, the more constructive may be the result.” […] Read More


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