At moments before two o’clock this afternoon, I decided to close my eyes for a moment on the little fainting couch in my office. I woke up shortly after six pm when my husband called. In the meantime, my office partner Carrie was working busily in the next room, as she had been since early […] Read More

Sometimes the tricky part of a bold move is what comes next. A very minor example. I wrote an extremely odd short short, a bit of what is often referred to as “flash fiction”, which is to say, a story that’s very short. I wrote it in the form of a style sheet, the list […] Read More

Two courage quotes from Abraham Maslow on the power of confidence: “The history of the human race is the story of men and women selling themselves short.” “We fear to know the fearsome and the unsavory aspects of ourselves but we fear ever more to know the godlike in ourselves.” Advice for the day: Don’t […] Read More

After a summer of neglect, my flower garden was full of reproach when I started a bit of weeding this afternoon. It’s just too hot here to enjoy such activities in summer, plus I’d rather be on the water then. (Or lounging in the AC reading a novel.) So I expect a garden to look […] Read More

At a party last night, I had a talk with the hostess, a woman in her seventies whom I’d never met before, and was impressed by the fact that she seemed entirely “for real” through the whole conversation. I asked myself what gave me that feeling. She seemed: * relaxed, but not ostentatiously so* forthcoming […] Read More

A friend with a martial arts testing this weekend is dealing with a stiff back. It would be possible for him to get the test put off. Here’s what he says about that possibility: “My default setting is to ‘go for it.’ The back would have to be really bad for me to ask for […] Read More

“We must insist that the future does not belong to fear.” —President Barack Obama, speaking to the U.N. Add to del.icio.us - Stumble It! - Subscribe to this feed - Digg it Read More

Recently I spent a day working on my sofa–and napping on my sofa–from roughly 9:30 a.m. to 6:30 p.m. Not my usual workday but I got a fair amount done. And caught up on my sleep. (I think.) And I didn’t let my laptop crash to the floor and die. Variations like that in my […] Read More

Just noted a new “follower” of this blog named FumblingConfidence. The name grabbed me. Anybody who admits to fumbling with confidence has a fair amount, as well as courage. And then I went to her blog, and discovered that, yes, her views are clear and bold. It takes some spunkiness to admit to less than […] Read More

Sitting in my husband‘s office, I’m keeping him company while he embarks on a massive and daunting cleanup. His style is to have books and papers and interesting objets strewn everywhere. And that has its charm, but lately the expression of this style has gotten a tad out of hand. There’s a finite amount of […] Read More